Template
Mentoring session template
A mentor and the person they mentor: one real question, worked through, and something to try before next time.
The agenda, with a time for each part
- What happened since last time7 min
- What did you try, and what happened?
- The question you brought20 min
- What have you already thought of?
- What would you do if you were not afraid of getting it wrong?
- What I have seen work8 min
- Would it help to hear what I did in the same spot?
- What you will try6 min
- What is one thing you will do before we next meet?
- Next time4 min
- When, and what should you bring?
How the notes read afterwards
A made-up example, so you can see the shape. In a real call each line carries the words that were said and who said them.
Since last time. Asked for the project lead role; was told “not yet”, without a reason.
Question. How to ask what “ready” would look like, without sounding impatient.
Will try. Ask the manager for two specific things to show by March.
Running it well
- The person being mentored sets the agenda and brings one question. A mentor who sets it is a second boss.
- Ask twice before you advise. Most people already know the answer and need to hear themselves say it.
Ways to change it
When to skip it. When there is nothing they want to ask. Move it rather than fill the time.
Questions
What do you talk about in a mentoring session?
One real question the person is facing, what they have tried, what the mentor has seen work, and one thing to try before next time.
How often should a mentor and mentee meet?
Every three or four weeks is enough for most. More often, and there is nothing new to bring.
What happens in the room
Everybody joins from the link, with no account. The agenda sits beside the call and each item fills in with what was said about it, under the name of the person who said it.
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